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Real relationships find you whether you're looking or not. You like him or her. At least, not enough to actually commit to them. I don't care what's going on in my life or how "ready" for a relationship I think I am.
And who wants to be with someone who likes them just enough to keep them hanging around in dating limbo with no chance of a real future? If you're using this excuse, you don't like the person enough to be dating them.
Just a few months ago, I told a perfectly nice guy who was interested in me that the wtill I wasn't being super-responsive was because "I'm not looking for anything serious. At the end of the day, if you want to date someone, you will. When you meet the right person, you'll drop everything for them.
Your feelings will be so strong that you'll have no choice but to be with that person. It's used exclusively by the biggest cowards in the dating game.
In this case, it actually is cruel to be kind. Alone, four Moscow Mules deep on a Tuesday night waiting for him to maybe call.
You'll lose interest in anyone else. And you know where that got me?
The fact of the matter is: If I like you, I will date you. Sill, I know. However, there's another hidden upside to looking for "the one" in a time when dating seems impossible: It's now pretty damn easy to separate.
Here's why. When you really care about someone, it's also equally hard to be on the receiving end of “I'm not looking for a relationship right now.”.
Often when people want a new relationship, they either look for someone to When we haven't yet unearthed and embraced our disowned parts, we are drawn. The person for whom you reserve this excuse is a special person. By Candice Jalili Dec. And that's why I'm vowing to stop accepting this as an excuse AND stop using it as one, and I'm encouraging you to do the same. It gives the person false hope.